Parenting Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All,  And Neither Are Your Kids!



Join this 6-week online adventure to create a deeper connection, spark personal growth, and build a stronger bond with your children through the magic of personality awareness!

Let’s Be Real — Parenting is No Small Feat!

If you’ve ever wished parenting came with a user manual, you’re in the right place!

Let’s be honest—parenting can feel like trying to play a board game where the rules keep changing, the pieces walk away, and someone’s always crying (sometimes it’s you).

You’re doing your best to raise a kind, confident, emotionally healthy human… while  remaining one yourself.

And here’s the thing: you’re definitely not alone.

- In a 2023 poll, 81% of people said they came from a dysfunctional family.

- Nearly 40% of U.S. kids are missing strong emotional bonds with their parents.

Those numbers? Yikes. But the good news is—you have the power to write a different story.

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Let's Be Real — Parenting is No Small Feat!

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If you’ve ever wished parenting came with a user manual, you’re in the right place!

Let’s be honest—parenting can feel like trying to play a board game where the rules keep changing, the pieces walk away, and someone’s always crying (sometimes it’s you).

You’re doing your best to raise a kind, confident, emotionally healthy human… while  remaining one yourself.

And here’s the thing: you’re definitely not alone.

- In a 2023 poll, 81% of people said they came from a dysfunctional family.

- Nearly 40% of U.S. kids are missing strong emotional bonds with their parents.

Those numbers? Yikes. But the good news is—you have the power to write a different story.


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Your Parenting Mission

Should You Choose to Accept It...

Is to uncover what makes your child tick, embrace your differences, and create more connection with less chaos. In just 6 weeks, you’ll learn how to speak their personality language so things run smoother at home (and yes, that includes fewer battles over bedtime). It’s parenting—but with a personalized twist. Mission possible? Absolutely!

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Your Parenting Mission

Should You Choose to Accept It...

Is to uncover what makes your child tick, embrace your differences, and create more connection with less chaos. In just 6 weeks, you’ll learn how to speak their personality language so things run smoother at home (and yes, that includes fewer battles over bedtime). It’s parenting—but with a personalized twist. Mission possible? Absolutely!

Your Parenting Captain

This mission is led by Lisa Ulshafer—Mom, Empowerment Life Coach, Author, and Certified Color Code Trainer.

With over 18 years of experience coaching parents and families, Lisa knows the highs, the lows, and the "get-off-the-computer-before-I-pull-the-WiFi" moments of raising kids. She's walked the parenting path herself—solo, messy, and determined—and transformed it into a journey of deep connection, emotional growth, and powerful breakthroughs.

Now, she's here to hand you the tools, insights, and lightbulb moments she wished she had earlier.

Ready to laugh, learn, and level up your parenting game? Lisa’s got you.

(Curious about her story? Scroll down to read her real-life parenting adventure).

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Your Parenting Captain

This mission is led by Lisa Ulshafer—Mom, Empowerment Life Coach, Author, and Certified Color Code Trainer.

With over 18 years of experience coaching parents and families, Lisa knows the highs, the lows, and the "get-off-the-computer-before-I-pull-the-WiFi" moments of raising kids. She's walked the parenting path herself—solo, messy, and determined—and transformed it into a journey of deep connection, emotional growth, and powerful breakthroughs.

Now, she's here to hand you the tools, insights, and lightbulb moments she wished she had earlier.

Ready to laugh, learn, and level up your parenting game? Lisa’s got you.

(Curious about her story? Scroll down to read her real-life parenting adventure).

What’s In It for Youand Your Kids!

  • Less Drama, More Zen

    Learn how to keep your cool when things get heated—and stop those meltdowns before they begin.

  • Finally Speak Their Language

    Connect in ways that actually land so your kid hears you (and maybe even listens 😲).

  • Bye-Bye Behavior Battles

    Understand what’s really going on underneath the acting out—and respond in ways that work.

  • Build Confidence from the Inside Out

    Help your child feel accepted, valued, and proud of who they are—quirks and all.

  • Raise Capable, Confident Humans

    Teach responsibility without lectures—just real-life tools for wise choices and growing up strong.

What's In It for You — and Your Kids!

  • Less Drama, More Zen

    Learn how to keep your cool when things get heated—and stop those meltdowns before they begin.

  • Finally Speak Their Language

    Connect in ways that actually land so your kid hears you (and maybe even listens 😲).

  • Bye-Bye Behavior Battles

    Understand what’s really going on underneath the acting out—and respond in ways that work.

  • Build Confidence from the Inside Out

    Help your child feel accepted, valued, and proud of who they are—quirks and all.

  • Raise Capable, Confident Humans

    Teach responsibility without lectures—just real-life tools for wise choices and growing up strong.

What's Inside this Powerful Program!

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PREPARING FOR THE PROGRAM

Begin by taking the Personality Assessments

You’ll receive access to the adult Color Code assessment and kid-friendly versions for children between the ages of 5 and 18.

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WEEK 1

Explore the Motivational Fuel for Each Personality

Uncover the motives and needs at the heart of both your and your child’s personalities—what drives you, what shuts you down, and what helps you thrive. With this insight, communication becomes clearer and conflict starts to fade. It’s like having a parenting GPS that finally speaks your language!

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WEEK 2 

Discover the Powers and Pitfalls of Each Personality

Every personality has its superpowers, and its challenges, and you’ll uncover them all! You’ll learn how to celebrate the strengths that make you and your child shine, while also tackling the tricky traits without losing your cool. Instead of butting heads, you’ll discover how to work together with more ease and empathy. Get ready to turn everyday challenges into connection-building wins!

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WEEK 3

Calibrate Your Parenting Style

Dial in your parenting style to match your child’s unique personality—because one-size-fits-all just doesn’t cut it. You’ll learn how to respond in ways that truly resonate, so your child feels seen, heard, and understood. The result? Less frustration, more cooperation, and a whole lot more harmony at home.

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WEEK 4

Embrace Your Family's True Colors

Get ready to celebrate the colorful cast of characters in your household! You’ll learn how to embrace the unique personalities that make your family one-of-a-kind. When everyone feels accepted for who they are, connection deepens and conflicts shrink. It’s the secret to turning daily chaos into a more joyful, united home.

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WEEK 5

Raise Your EQs

Discover how to turn big feelings into big breakthroughs! You’ll learn how to help your child (and yourself) handle tough emotions with confidence and care. With simple tools to boost emotional intelligence, communication gets easier and connection grows stronger. Because when everyone learns how to feel it, name it, and talk through it—magic happens.

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WEEK 6

Prepare for the Journey Ahead

Parenting isn’t a sprint—it’s a lifelong adventure with twists, turns, and the occasional snack break. You’ll learn how to stay connected through every stage of your child’s growth by adjusting your expectations and approach along the way. You’ll also discover how to guide your child from “me” to “we,” helping them share their unique gifts with purpose. Because the ultimate goal isn’t just raising a great kid—it’s building a relationship that lasts a lifetime.

What's Inside this Powerful Program!

PREPARING FOR THE PROGRAM

Begin by taking the Personality Assessments

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You’ll receive access to the adult Color Code assessment and kid-friendly versions for children between the ages of 5 and 18.


WEEK 1

Explore the Motivational Fuel for Each Personality

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Uncover the motives and needs at the heart of both your and your child’s personalities—what drives you, what shuts you down, and what helps you thrive. With this insight, communication becomes clearer and conflict starts to fade. It’s like having a parenting GPS that finally speaks your language!


WEEK 2 

Discover the Powers and Pitfalls of Each Personality

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Every personality has its superpowers, and its challenges, and you’ll uncover them all! You’ll learn how to celebrate the strengths that make you and your child shine, while also tackling the tricky traits without losing your cool. Instead of butting heads, you’ll discover how to work together with more ease and empathy. Get ready to turn everyday challenges into connection-building wins!


WEEK 3

Calibrate Your Parenting Style

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Dial in your parenting style to match your child’s unique personality—because one-size-fits-all just doesn’t cut it. You’ll learn how to respond in ways that truly resonate, so your child feels seen, heard, and understood. The result? Less frustration, more cooperation, and a whole lot more harmony at home.


WEEK 4

Embrace Your Family's True Colors

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Get ready to celebrate the colorful cast of characters in your household! You’ll learn how to embrace the unique personalities that make your family one-of-a-kind. When everyone feels accepted for who they are, connection deepens and conflicts shrink. It’s the secret to turning daily chaos into a more joyful, united home.


WEEK 5

Raise Your EQs

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Discover how to turn big feelings into big breakthroughs! You’ll learn how to help your child (and yourself) handle tough emotions with confidence and care. With simple tools to boost emotional intelligence, communication gets easier and connection grows stronger. Because when everyone learns how to feel it, name it, and talk through it—magic happens.


WEEK 6

Prepare for the Journey Ahead

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Parenting isn’t a sprint—it’s a lifelong adventure with twists, turns, and the occasional snack break. You’ll learn how to stay connected through every stage of your child’s growth by adjusting your expectations and approach along the way. You’ll also discover how to guide your child from “me” to “we,” helping them share their unique gifts with purpose. Because the ultimate goal isn’t just raising a great kid—it’s building a relationship that lasts a lifetime.

JOIN NOW!

Bring the whole family together—one personality insight at a time.
Because every kid deserves to be understood. And every parent deserves a little peace.

$297


Six modules are released weekly, and the option to access more modules sooner for you go-getters!

Two Adult Personality Assessments ($80 value)

Child Personality Assessments for children between the ages of 5-18 years

40-page Parenting Guide

Downloadable exercises and resource guides

Lifetime access to the program


YES, COUNT ME IN!

Mission Accomplished — Parenting Wins in Action!

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"Color-coding our family has made an incredible difference in understanding each other. Being a YELLOW personality, nothing embarrasses me. When I learned that my husband and my oldest daughter are each RED personalities, I learned it can cause them pain if I tease or say something that embarrasses them, especially in public. I now have a new sensitivity for them that I never really considered before.

It has helped me understand myself, enrich my marriage, and enhance my ability to parent with more empathy and clarity."

~ Sondra Pariser


"What I have learned about myself and my children can truly help me better understand them and understand why I react the way I do when things get hard. I can take a step back and remind myself that we all have different core motivators and I need to meet them where they are at, not where I want or need them to be. When your children feel heard, seen and validated it can also strengthen your relationship in so many magical ways. The tools Lisa gave us in this program will last a lifetime, and I am just so grateful."

~ Aja


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"Lisa's experience and insight are invaluable and insightful. You'll learn more deeply about yourself and your children which will pave the way for more happy, healthy relationships, in parenting and beyond!"

~ Lisa Abrahime


“In order to have a better understanding of ourselves and our children, learn how to approach each other the right way by knowing each other’s personality type.”

~ Jaimie Shum


“Understanding our own personality and our child's helps us parent them more consciously. The key is parenting ourselves and regulating our own emotions, and allowing them to have their own too.”

~ Dr. Julie Quan

The Parenting Game-Changer

that could have saved me years of conflict and confusion

I know the struggles of parenthood - having been a parent for 29 years now. After leaving a tumultuous 12-year relationship back in 1998, I became the sole parent and provider of my son Eric when he was only 2 years old. The following years were some of the toughest years of my life. 

As I was figuring out the whole parenting thing while financially making ends meet, I struggled with insecurities, stress, and anger that led to impatience with my son, which led to guilt for being impatient. Oh yeah, and I was always in a hurry! I was stuck in a cycle and felt like I was never going to be able to break through my emotional and financial barriers to achieve a better life for me and my son.

That’s when I knew I had to do something, so I found a new path and immersed myself in a profound transformational journey. Even though I had a degree in Psychology, I attended over 80 seminars and retreats studying a multitude of subjects, including emotional healing, relationship dynamics, inner child work, and behavioral psychology. 

As a result of my healing and transformation, I became a healthier parent because I became a healthier woman. I became more confident and released my anger and guilt. Patience became one of the greatest gifts of my healing, completely transforming my parenting style. 

In Comes The Color Code!

It wasn't until years later that I discovered the Color Code through some dear friends who are also life coaches. Even though I had taken many personality assessments over the years, this one surpassed all the others due to its simplicity, its easy-to-understand yet powerful insights into myself and my son, and parenting strategies that could be implemented immediately.

The one thought that came to me repeatedly was, "This would have been a game-changer for me back when Eric was younger and I was struggling as a parent."

Even though I didn't have it back then, I have it now. Understanding each other's personality types has deepened my relationship with my son. We've both laughed and loved more with the information we each discovered through the Color Code, which continues to strengthen our bond.

That's why I am excited to share this with you: so you can have the parenting game-changer that could have saved me years of conflict and confusion. It is an invaluable tool that can forever improve your relationship with your child and, quite honestly, everyone in your life!


JOIN NOW!

Bring the whole family together—one personality insight at a time.
Because every kid deserves to be understood. And every parent deserves a little peace.

$297


Six modules are released weekly, and the option to access more modules sooner for you go-getters!

Two Adult Personality Assessments ($80 value)

Child Personality Assessments for children between the ages of 5-18 years

40-page Parenting Guide

Downloadable exercises and resource guides

Lifetime access to the program


YES, COUNT ME IN!

Bring the Whole Family Together!


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Imagine this... 

You get your child—and they feel it.

Your family talks more, laughs more, and works through challenges together.


You're raising emotionally intelligent, confident kids—and you’re proud of the parent you’re becoming.

All because you took a few weeks to invest in connection, compassion, and communication!

Bring the Whole Family Together!


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Imagine this... 

You get your child—and they feel it.

Your family talks more, laughs more, and works through challenges together.


You're raising emotionally intelligent, confident kids—and you’re proud of the parent you’re becoming.

All because you took a few weeks to invest in connection, compassion, and communication!

Parenting by Personality is based on the Color Code Personality System.